Another Year of Full Time Chastity Ends...

Our thirteenth year of full time chastity has finally come to a close and I thought I would share with you a couple of graphs representing our relative orgasm stats. Not much point doing the other graphs this year as you know we've just had the one Femdom session and I haven't cum anywhere except on my own stomach and Mistress's hands the last two years (hopefully that will change this coming year though...). 

Despite our best efforts (a run of 10 in March) we just failed to get Mistress back into the hundreds, but we came very close and this marks a significant increase over last year's lowpoint. And when you consider Mistress had 98 orgasms to my 5 (full orgasms) that's still nearly a 20>1 ratio -  almost double our original target!

As you can see from this second graph, I have enjoyed a total of ten orgasms, 5 ruined and 5 full in the last year. This is the lowest combined total since we started. While I'm happy with 5 full orgasms, I would like a few more ruins (preferably on Mistress's beautiful feet or pussy)... in fact I would be happy to give up full orgasms for more ruined ones, but I guess I will have to wait and see what Mistress decides. 

Our First Femdom Session in nearly two years!

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Don't You Just LOVE January?

I'm being sarcastic of course, January sucks major ass in every possible way. But we've just gotta get on with it haven't we? After all what's the alternative, curl up in a corner until February... if only. 

It's a funny thing getting older, and it ain't exactly fun. I remarked to Mistress earlier today how one of the things about getting older is how easy it is to hurt yourself without even trying. I was just standing by my car the other day and my knee went too far the wrong way for no reason at all. Rather painful and so ridiculous! 

Also , it feels kinda like I'm reaching the age where I'm moving to a different part of my life. I recently disposed of my guitar and amps because it finally dawned on me that after ten years of not actually doing anything musical that maybe I'm not actually going to 'make it' as a rock star. Well maybe I knew that already since I cut my hair off nearly 25 years ago... plus now my guitar playing is so terrible it's just not worth even bothering.

But I didn't realise quite how inactive I have been on the writing front. I mean I know I haven't posted anything for a long time and I know I come on here every so often telling you that I have stories to write, etc etc... but I just clicked on my 'Stories' tab and I see the last story I posted was in January 2021.

Three years ago! 

There was a flurry of productivity in 2020 with the furlough and being at home with little to do (that seems a long time ago now, hey?), and two in 2019, nothing in 2018... you would be forgiven for thinking my writing is as dead as my musical career.

But actually I do still have things going on, I just don't seem to be able to finish them. It's annoying. I hoped to finish at least one over Christmas and it didn't happen (again)... I just always seem to have something else I need to do (I am still writing a non-sex blog which takes up a lot of my time) and as always I need to be in the mood for being creative.

But at least me and Mistress R are still continuing our 'chastity' lifestyle (with a little Femdom thrown in). This afternoon Mistress had a really nice orgasm on my tongue and then she proceeded to tease my cock with her hand and the cock whip. That felt fucking great, I gotta tell you. Especially the harder hits to my balls - felt like her hand but I think it was the whip. Either way I loved it!

Obviously I wasn't allowed to cum. But I wasn't expecting to. So maybe January isn't 100% terrible after all. 🤣

Happy New Year!

Happy New Year everyone, I hope you all had a great Christmas and New Year. I have to say I'm not a great fan of the time between Boxing Day and New Year because while on the one hand I never have to work I always feel like once Christmas is over with I just want to crack on with the New Year along with all that entails (eating better, organizing myself and just generally making a fresh start). So now that 2024 is here I actually a feel a lot better and I'm almost looking forward to going back to work tomorrow.

Well, almost. Hahaha. But no, I am looking forward to getting back into a routine and going to sleep before 3am... and getting up before 10am! Although I won't be saying that tomorrow morning I assure you. I think the thing that frustrates me is that I get all this time off work and yet I don't seem to ever manage to put it to good use. Maybe I should just accept that I need one week a year when I can totally turn off and just relax. 

No movement on the story front unfortunately (see my comments above), but I did get another idea, so now I have seven on the go instead of 6, can we call that progress? Not really. But then again this is the thing, to write and/or be creative I need to be feeling good, not tired and slothful, so maybe I need to look at Christmas differently instead of being annoyed with myself that I 'wasted' the time off.

On a more positive note, I managed to lose 12lbs before Christmas and I only put 5lbs back on (which I figure can be gone in 7-10 days) so that worked out very well. Also I'm heading into 2024 with just 8 days on the board, Mistress having given me an amazing orgasm on Christmas Eve while I worshipped her delicious ass. Wow that really was a great early Christmas gift. Mistress even floated the idea of a Femdom Session in December, it didn't actually happen but at least the idea isn't dead and is something we can work towards getting back on track in 2024.

Mistress Has a Cold...

Well this week has been a bit up and down. Unfortunately Mistress developed a cold and has been feeling pretty rotten all week. Fortunately she felt a little better on Thursday and so she enjoyed a nice orgasm, just as well as she felt worse again on Friday. Today she seems a lot better though so hopefully it's making a retreat.

I've stuck extremely rigidly to my plan to not eat chocolate/cakes/crisps this week or drink alcohol (not that I drink much anyway, but it's still calories and it's easy for me to give up so I might as well do that as well). I realised that biscuits, nougat and peanut brittle don't fall into any of those categories so I guess if I get really desperate I could exploit that loophole. But really I should stick to the plan - 4 weeks solid of really healthy eating and walking everyday. I'm sure I will feel much better for it (indeed I already do and it's only been 6 days) and will enjoy Christmas much more than I otherwise would have.

I was going to weigh myself this morning, to see what I had lost, but I decided not to because I know what will happen. If I'd lost nothing I would be pissed off and eat. If I lost 4 or 5lbs I would relax and eat. If I lost 2lbs I would be annoyed that it wasn't more and eat. So wisely I decided not to, instead I shall weigh at the end of the 4 weeks and hopefully it will be a good chunky number.

111 And Out!

Last night my beautiful Mistress finally granted me a full orgasm, bringing an end to 111 days of waiting. I always find those bigger numbers hard to put into perspective, so to better explain my previous 'full' orgasm was on the 30th of July. Which seems a hell of a long time ago to me!

Not only that but Mistress allowed me to worship her gorgeous ass while she was stroking me and slapping my balls, which made it all even better. Long term readers will know how much I adore worshipping Mistress R's ass, and it made it a lot easier for me to stay hard than has often been the case recently.

The last few weeks have been a bit troublesome on that front, which I'm sure is at least 80% mental (I do suffer from nerve damage which can cause a loss of feeling when I am tired/run down/depressed...) and will hopefully abate now that I have decided to take action to curb my weight gain.

Why do I always decide to lose weight right before Christmas? No idea. But I'm actually looking forward to four weeks of eating super healthily before Christmas, and hopefully after that I can make some real headway.

If you're still coming to this blog, thanks for sticking around. I know it's been a bit flat, this year has been difficult all round, but hopefully things are getting better now. I'm sure if I can lose some weight (well a lot of weight) and get some energy back instead of just 'existing' day to day then maybe eventually things will right themselves and I will have more to write about.

As for the orgasm control, well some of you might be thinking I would be a little disappointed that I came so close to setting a new record (currently 135 days). Well, in all honesty, I'm not. Contrary to what others may have written I personally don't experience ever increasing levels of desperation and horniness - maybe that's because I'm not caged, maybe it's because I'm older... but while there is an increase from 0 for sure, after about a couple of months it doesn't seem to change that much, other than maybe it's harder to hold back once I get to the edge (hence a very recent accidental ruin).

One thing that hasn't changed is the absolute joy of worshipping Mistress R's delicious pussy and making her cum, and we've far surpassed the 10:1 ratio I originally imagined way back when we started. Granted it's going to take a long time to get to that overall, but for example currently, with me having literally cum yesterday we are standing at 22:1 for this chastity year. It's nearly 10:1 even if you include the ruined orgasms too!

All in all I feel quite positive that things are going to improve and maybe one day we will get to the point where we re-introduce more Femdom into our relationship.

101 Not Out...

I know it's been an awfully long time since my last post, and I quite understand if you had given up on me ever posting anything again. But here I am. I can't tell you how many times I've thought about posting something over the last six months, but I knew I would promise to post more and that I would soon be posting the four stories I have on the go... but I didn't want to make any more promises that I knew I probably wouldn't be able to keep...

So I kept quiet. And really I haven't been keeping up with what's been going on in the chastity/femdom blogosphere that much, the only blog I really follow these days is 'Sub Hub in Phoenix', a fantastic blog that never fails to inspire wonder (and perhaps a little bit of envy). If you don't already read it, you definitely should. 

So why am I here and why now? Well... nothing's changed that much really, we're still continuing our long standing system of cage-free chastity (now into our 12th straight year I believe) but yesterday, for the first time in a very long time I topped the 100 day mark. I'm not 100% sure how many times I've exceeded one hundred days without a full orgasm, but my guess is it's only been twice, maybe three times max.

My current record stands at 135 days, which means I would need to go another 35 days (as of today) to set a new record. So if my maths is right that would be the 12th of December or thereabouts. Of course, it's entirely up to Mistress R to decide when I get to cum, be that next week, next month or next year, so we will have to wait and see if a new record is in the offing or not.

Since my last full orgasm, back on the 30th July... I have had two ruined orgasms. The first one was intentional, the second was not. In fact I didn't even realise I had ruined until I removed my cock ring and... oops. I never felt anything, other than the feeling of approaching the edge... so it was a bit of a surprise.

Earlier this evening Mistress enjoyed her 1413th orgasm since the blog started back in 2011, and I can honestly say I never get tired of worshipping Mistress R's delicious pussy. Afterwards she teased me beautifully, until I was really craving release. To be honest when I'm that close I don't really care if I have a full or ruined orgasm, deep down what I really want is to taste my cum. Preferably off some part of Mistress's gorgeous body... but even just off her fingers. It's a strange thing that's developed over time, I guess because every time I'm allowed to cum I have to eat it now I just crave the taste when I'm super horny.

Anyway, I thought I would let you know that we are still here. Still doing it, despite getting older and unhealthier. I would imagine we are probably in this pretty much permanently now, Mistress seems to love things the way they are and I can't really imagine what it would be like to go back either. So while I'm not making any promises about posting more, rest assured we are still carrying on and I still keep the numbers updated.

Thanks to everyone who still visits and yes, I will try my best to get those stories finished and posted as soon as possible. 

RA

Another Run of Chastity Cums to a Close

Saturday saw my latest period of chastity ended, with 66 days of cum unloaded on my beautiful Mistress's gorgeous feet. Oh yes, it's been sooooooooo long since I got to cum on Mistress's sexy feet - like September 2021 long! I could not wait after Mistress hinted she might let me cum this weekend and then asked where I would like to be allowed to cum last week...

But first Mistress had a pretty explosive orgasm with my tongue on her clit and my finger teasing her ass. She came super hard, which I really loved - of course. Then she got me hard - I was a little slow, being a bit hot, but she got me there eventually and soon she was standing over me again and making me beg to worship her delicious asshole. I really LOVE how much ass worship I'm being granted at the moment and it certainly did the trick - my cock was rock hard as Mistress slapped my balls and pumped me as my tongue teased her ass.... so fucking HOT!

After a few rounds of this Mistress climbed off me and closed her mouth around my cock, slapping my balls as she sucked me, this is so awesome - I love it. Then she sat up, still pumping my cock, and asked me again if I wanted to cum on her feet. There was no way I was changing my mind after waiting 20 months!

Mistress pumped my cock a few more times and then told me to take over. I quickly got up on my knees and turned round as Mistress slid up the bed and onto the pillows, presenting her gorgeous feet right in front of me. As I stroked myself closer she pressed her feet into my balls, pulling the skin of my cock tight. Then I tipped over and started to cum, rope after rope of cum spattering her smooth skin, it felt amazing and Mistress gradually took over, using her feet to pump the rest of the cum out.

Then Mistress lifted her feet in turn for me to clean with my tongue. I loved every second of it, there was so much cum, her feet were really covered in it. So fucking hot. I really hope I don't have to wait another 20 months to do that again..